The Power of Collusion

Geplaatst op 28-04-2026

“He’s gay but he’s my best friend. Sometimes we go to the mall and just people watch, and we give each person like a different story. Oh my gosh, its so fucked up! Like, I’m pretty sure we’re going to hell over some of the stories we make up for people.”

-An actual woman I railed actually said this to me once.

Do you know what Collusion is?

Collusion: Secret or illegal cooperation or conspiracy;

We’ll define collusion as ‘a secret conspiracy.’ If you’re familiar with old school PUA literature (and you should be), you’ll know that Niel Strauss and everyone else suggests that during conversation with a woman you pick out people in the crowd and make up hilarious and fun life stories for them as a comfort building exercise. This is collusion.

Collusion always has been and always will be an extremely potent pickup technique that will help you bang your target. The reason goes back to primal human nature.

Let me ask you: Are you over the legal drinking age in your country? If so: Do you drink more or less than you did before you were of age to drink alcohol?

I promise most of you drank more before you were legally allowed. I know I did. When I was 17 I would get absolutely obliterated to the point that I’d have trouble functioning days later. Now that I’m in my mid 20s, I hardly ever go passed a solid buzz. For one, you pick up better with a buzz, its always important to drink in moderation, and stay comfortable while keeping your wits. But mostly I drink less now because drinking isn’t edgy or cool.

But wait! There’s more!

Collusion also gets her creative and invested in the interaction. As I said in my Text Messaging Guide, I always have a woman help me come up with a funny nick name to use in my phone. Part of the reason is that the more invested she is in the interaction, the more likely she is going to want to further see where things lead (why you always make out on the first meet [push for the bang]). The more she has invested into you, the more she wants to see a return on that investment.

Collusion provides you with a fun and interesting way to get to her invest and build her comfort levels in you.

If you’re actually clever you will find she is also more attracted to you overall!

It also helps her feel more comfortable with you because (always remember this) with women it isn’t the content of the interaction so much as the spirit of hte interaction. She wont remember what exactly you talked about but she will remember that you talked for hours and she had such a great time. This is key to interacting with women.

Examples

You meet a hot chick at the bar and start striking up a conversation. There are a ton of ways you can start colluding with her. Motion to the bouncer and ask, “Do you know that guy?” If she doesn’t, begin to make up a story for him. If she does, say, “What’s he like? I bet he the type of guy – ” and go into collusion.

Point out a man failing miserably at picking up a chick (plenty of those around, I promise), and say something like, “What do you think this girl is thinking?” She’ll give you an answer at which point you put on a nerdy voice, pretend to be the guy and respond. If she says she doesn’t know and redirects the question back to, do an exaggerated caricature girl impression. Make it a screeching bitch voice and really cut the guy down. This incorporates teasing into the routine.

It’s really that simple, guys. And the beauty of it is the strength this technique will add to your game. All in all, collusion is a powerful tool that will server any player well in his game – be it indirect day game, or direct bar/club game.